Marriage with an unbelieving husband.
Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 9:45 am
Hello,
My name is Sophya. I got married in 2014 to a man that is a believer so he has said. But when we dated we broke up and I remember praying to God and asking him was his the man he had given me to be my husband. One day this same guy called me while we were broken up and said he couldn't live without me and started to cry . Shortly thereafter he wanted to get married and we did. Now with that be saying we have had turmoil and confusion the majority of our marriage so far. We have been separated numerous times and it was always because my husband asked or forces me to leave. It's never my will to leave. I have sought God on this matter to change things over and over but we still have this problem. I have to wonder is this Satan trying to divide us or is this God telling me he's not the one for me. God never warned me in anyway he was not the one for me to marry but I do know during our short courtship there were a few things that I overlooked or didn't see as a problem I guess. Maybe I was being blind to these things. I know no one is perfect and I can live with his flaws but I can't live with the constant separation and him putting me and my 2 young daughters out of the house over and over against my will. I keep trying to live in peace with him knowing we will have disagreements but that doesn't give him justification to kick us out every tin he gets upset, but this is the way he handles our marriage. I am miserable but I love him still and the confusion is more than I can handle not to mention my kids or totally miserable and have wondered where is God in all this. I need help and answers.
My name is Sophya. I got married in 2014 to a man that is a believer so he has said. But when we dated we broke up and I remember praying to God and asking him was his the man he had given me to be my husband. One day this same guy called me while we were broken up and said he couldn't live without me and started to cry . Shortly thereafter he wanted to get married and we did. Now with that be saying we have had turmoil and confusion the majority of our marriage so far. We have been separated numerous times and it was always because my husband asked or forces me to leave. It's never my will to leave. I have sought God on this matter to change things over and over but we still have this problem. I have to wonder is this Satan trying to divide us or is this God telling me he's not the one for me. God never warned me in anyway he was not the one for me to marry but I do know during our short courtship there were a few things that I overlooked or didn't see as a problem I guess. Maybe I was being blind to these things. I know no one is perfect and I can live with his flaws but I can't live with the constant separation and him putting me and my 2 young daughters out of the house over and over against my will. I keep trying to live in peace with him knowing we will have disagreements but that doesn't give him justification to kick us out every tin he gets upset, but this is the way he handles our marriage. I am miserable but I love him still and the confusion is more than I can handle not to mention my kids or totally miserable and have wondered where is God in all this. I need help and answers.