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Hello ,

I went through a lot of false teaching and read a lot of false teaching . So I went through a lot of grief and so on .
So after this a I become scary , even opening the bible . Because I thought :"oh no , again new rules ,I can not keep them all " .
I read to much from "super Christians ", which say everything is a sin .
But everything had his reason . I am happy that I found know the truth .
Anyway I am not here to tell you my biography.
But this questions they are following me very often , so I hope that your answers will end this . You are the last person I want to ask and stop looking for an answer on this question .

First question , is a hairsystem for a men a sin . Like in this video https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x4pgM3unG9I" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;.
I asked some Christians , in the end the final answer was It depends how my heart is . If it is for picking up more girls it is of course a sin .
But I don't do it for picking up girls . I do it because I feel more self confident and with the hairsystem I am not always keep focusing on my hair loss , I was so confident that I even wanted to preach the bible .
And I am only 19 , so aggressive hair loss is a difficult dealing for me .
I thought about it , because of one verses in the corinther where paulus said something about headgear .

My other question is , if you don't believe in one saved always saved , how you life . I am everyday afraid to lose my salvation . This disappoints me a lot , because I am leaving in fear. When I found out about one saved always saved , I was like , what a beatiful gift god gives ous . I will keep his commands because I love him . But now again , when I read on your site , I get struggling again . When salvation is not eternity , I mean how can I live . I had also a time whew I feel so ashamed because I could not keep being holy .
But then I thought I never become holy in my life and I never can keep all the commands. And this is why Jesus died . But how should I live then , if I can lost my salvation every day . So It could be that I follow god all my life ,for example 50 years . And then I do a sin , and then I am losing salvation , and then just lose everything .

Thank you very much god bless you .

James 4:5-10 MKJV
(5) Do you think that the Scripture says in vain, The spirit that dwells in us yearns to envy?
(6) But He gives more grace. Therefore He says, God resists the proud, but He gives grace to the humble.
(7) Therefore submit yourselves to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
(8) Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, sinners; and purify your hearts, double-minded ones.
(9) Be afflicted, and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to heaviness.
(10) Be humbled before the Lord, and He will lift you up.


Hi Max,

Let's see if this is your last stop in search of fulfillment in the Lord Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth and the Life.

Hair systems. I can tell you that true confidence is only found in the Lord Jesus Christ. Wigs will never cut it, nor will any other thing solve your problem of lack of confidence. Believe me, I've tried many things and only Jesus Christ could give me peace. After all He is the Prince of Peace and the Bible says:

“For in Him dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily. And you are complete in Him, who is the Head of all principality and power” (Colossians 2:9-10 MKJV).

“For of Him and through Him and to Him are all things; to Him be glory forever! Amen” (Romans 11:36 MKJV).

“Therefore let no one glory in men. For all things are yours” (1 Corinthians 3:21 MKJV).

“But there is to us only one God, the Father, of Whom are all things, and we in Him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, through Whom are all things, and we by Him” (1 Corinthians 8:6 MKJV).

How do you know it isn't good for you to be bald? How do you know you don't need your condition for the higher good?

“I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound. In everything and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ Who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:12-13 MKJV).

Can Jesus Christ prevail without a hair system? Is He limited or empowered by man's pride, vanity and judgment?

How about this Scripture?

1 Corinthians 1:27-29 MKJV
(27) But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God has chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty;
(28) and God has chosen the base things of the world, and things which are despised, and things which are not, in order to bring to nothing things that are;
(29) so that no flesh should glory in His presence.

How do you know God won't glorify Himself with your bald head? It seems like perhaps Elisha was a bald man:

“And he went up from there to Bethel. And he was going up in the highway. And little boys came out from the city and mocked him, and said to him, Go up, bald head! Go up, bald head! And he turned behind him and saw them, and declared them vile in the name of the LORD. And two she-bears came out of the woods and tore forty-two boys of them” (2 Kings 2:23-24 MKJV).

By the way, if your confidence is in a “hair system,” you have no business preaching the Bible, no matter how confident you may be.

But if your confidence or faith is in the Lord Jesus Christ, Who laid down His life and took it up again for your sake that He might give you True Life by dwelling in you, then you won't worry about sin or losing your salvation as though your salvation was all up to you.

“But then I thought I never become holy in my life and I never can keep all the commands. And this is why Jesus died . But how should I live then , if I can lost my salvation every day . So It could be that I follow god all my life ,for example 50 years . And then I do a sin , and then I am losing salvation , and then just lose everything .”

You've never known the true meaning of salvation or grace. Nor do you understand what sin is. Grace is granted so that you, by a new nature, can and will live the righteous life; you'll no longer live in sin.

Read:

Do Christians Sin?, Law and Grace, Grace - The Reality, The Cross - Only the Death Sentence Will Avail, and Taking Up the Cross: “What Is Required of Me?”

There are also so many other writings at our site that can instruct you in the way you need to go. Pray and ask Jesus Christ for His gifts of faith and repentance.

Victor