Facing excommunication - The Lord is so good!
Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2015 9:12 pm
Hi Victor and Paul .
My name is Emma, I'm from Australia, I love the Lord, and I've been reading through your website with genuine interest. My interest arises on behalf of my husband, who was bought up in the Dutch Reformed tradition. I myself identify with no 'denomination,' only as a believer in Jesus Christ the Lord!
Firstly, thank you for the time and care taken by you and your friends to put it all together. I sense the deep conviction behind the words written on this site and appreciate the seriousness with which they are written. May they be used for the Lords purpose .
I came to your site through my research on Calvinism, and I am grateful for it. I found your article outlining who Calvin really was so revealing, and it led me to further research which confirms your depiction of this man as at base, evil. I am amazed (but then, not surprised) that such evil has become so institutionalised as acceptable 'religion.' It is so anti Christ! so the opposite of everything He taught as true - love! - I am amazed that anyone who has actually read a bible, ever, is able to hold onto it. How do they not see? Why would they even want it?! Oh I find it so frustrating! And yet I know they are blinded, and not by themselves, and I know Jesus has got it, and I can just trust that! It's hard not to get frustrated sometimes though! Im trying! .
Basically, I am looking into these things because my husband feels he needs to unbind himself spiritually from the Reformed Church. This has been a back and forth issue within him for years, but I think Jesus might be now bringing it to a head, as my husband is now looking into how to retract his RC 'membership.' A basic history; Jason was baptised as a baby and did a 'profession' as a 20 year old. From that time on he didn't life a life of 'commitment' to the RC at all (ie no church attendance etc), and although they pursued him originally to attend, or transfer church membership, they eventually let it lie and so it has, for the past 20 odd years. In case you are wondering how I fit into this story, I met Jason about one month before his profession, after the classes had been done and the date had been set. So I saw him do his profession that day. I was 16 at the time.
I knew the first time I entered that church that something was wrong there, I'll never forget that green book of 'forms' and what that meant to me, this was not the love of Jesus I'd been bought up to know, He didn't have 'forms' to dictate how people should love him, and especially not to kick people out from his love! I couldn't believe there was a form to excommunicate people, and they claimed this was Jesus!
I didn't hide my mind or thoughts from Jason, and he agreed, claiming he had no real affection for this system, and that he'd just always done what was 'expected' of him by his family and the church and had always been looking forward to getting away from it. Jason did not exhibit the same as his parents, he saw the Lord (or at least wanted to!) as showing us love and thus freedom from 'rules', and not as the remote tyrant his parents religion claimed God was. So we were married, and never had anything personal to do with the RC again really. After they originally had to accept (at least on the surface) that Jason would not transfer a membership or attend, they seemed to drift away and leave him alone, and we've only attended for the odd family event since then. The elders did 'visit' when both our sons was born to try to convince Jase to get them baptised, but the last was 17 years ago. He is not sure what the church considers to be his 'status' now, but says he intends to ring today and find out. I am almost nervous for him!
Jason and I were baptised in the ocean about 5 years ago. I always wanted to follow my Lords example in that way and am so happy I did! It was the beginning of a much more intimate and real relationship between myself and Jesus Christ as my saviour, and I would never go back, praise him!
But for Jason, that baptism began a really difficult, confusing and consuming inner battle within him, a battle between the old and the new. It has been a brutal battle, we have faltered much, but I want to see my Lord reign unchallenged in my husbands life so much, and so does Jason! So, with that end in mind, we are reading your site. I trust that you will hear and see in spirit what is happening with Jason, and myself, and see that we genuinely want to cut this spirit off. It's been a long road even to here.
I hope the above has given you enough of a feel for who I am, and where I am coming from, to offer any advice you may have about what you think Jason or myself would be best to do in this. He fully believes he needs to separate from the RC formally, is there a wise way to do this in your opinion? Jason believes Jesus has shown him that he made a covenant with a man made church in his profession of faith, and that Jesus wants him to break this. Do you have any insight you could offers us about how this could be done? I feel deeply that Jason is now ready to do whatever he needs to, to do what is required to go all out for Jesus, but he's not sure how to do it or what exactly he should do. I wondered if you could offer any advice? But only if the Lords spirit is stirred to do so, of course . Outside of His stirring it would fail anyway!
Irregardless of any insight you may or not have about all this, I truly do want to thank you Victor and Paul for the work you've done and the great wealth of information I have gleaned in reading through it. Thank you for being brave, honest, and true to yourselves and the Lords call as you discern it. I wish you well in your purpose. Calvinism is so deeply and insidiously entrenched, that I believe it will take such hard, unwavering views as yours to challenge it in any meaningful way. God Bless all those who hear and do His will.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. May you continue to stand strong in these last days, along with all members of the Lords true church.
Much love,
Emma .
My name is Emma, I'm from Australia, I love the Lord, and I've been reading through your website with genuine interest. My interest arises on behalf of my husband, who was bought up in the Dutch Reformed tradition. I myself identify with no 'denomination,' only as a believer in Jesus Christ the Lord!
Firstly, thank you for the time and care taken by you and your friends to put it all together. I sense the deep conviction behind the words written on this site and appreciate the seriousness with which they are written. May they be used for the Lords purpose .
I came to your site through my research on Calvinism, and I am grateful for it. I found your article outlining who Calvin really was so revealing, and it led me to further research which confirms your depiction of this man as at base, evil. I am amazed (but then, not surprised) that such evil has become so institutionalised as acceptable 'religion.' It is so anti Christ! so the opposite of everything He taught as true - love! - I am amazed that anyone who has actually read a bible, ever, is able to hold onto it. How do they not see? Why would they even want it?! Oh I find it so frustrating! And yet I know they are blinded, and not by themselves, and I know Jesus has got it, and I can just trust that! It's hard not to get frustrated sometimes though! Im trying! .
Basically, I am looking into these things because my husband feels he needs to unbind himself spiritually from the Reformed Church. This has been a back and forth issue within him for years, but I think Jesus might be now bringing it to a head, as my husband is now looking into how to retract his RC 'membership.' A basic history; Jason was baptised as a baby and did a 'profession' as a 20 year old. From that time on he didn't life a life of 'commitment' to the RC at all (ie no church attendance etc), and although they pursued him originally to attend, or transfer church membership, they eventually let it lie and so it has, for the past 20 odd years. In case you are wondering how I fit into this story, I met Jason about one month before his profession, after the classes had been done and the date had been set. So I saw him do his profession that day. I was 16 at the time.
I knew the first time I entered that church that something was wrong there, I'll never forget that green book of 'forms' and what that meant to me, this was not the love of Jesus I'd been bought up to know, He didn't have 'forms' to dictate how people should love him, and especially not to kick people out from his love! I couldn't believe there was a form to excommunicate people, and they claimed this was Jesus!
I didn't hide my mind or thoughts from Jason, and he agreed, claiming he had no real affection for this system, and that he'd just always done what was 'expected' of him by his family and the church and had always been looking forward to getting away from it. Jason did not exhibit the same as his parents, he saw the Lord (or at least wanted to!) as showing us love and thus freedom from 'rules', and not as the remote tyrant his parents religion claimed God was. So we were married, and never had anything personal to do with the RC again really. After they originally had to accept (at least on the surface) that Jason would not transfer a membership or attend, they seemed to drift away and leave him alone, and we've only attended for the odd family event since then. The elders did 'visit' when both our sons was born to try to convince Jase to get them baptised, but the last was 17 years ago. He is not sure what the church considers to be his 'status' now, but says he intends to ring today and find out. I am almost nervous for him!
Jason and I were baptised in the ocean about 5 years ago. I always wanted to follow my Lords example in that way and am so happy I did! It was the beginning of a much more intimate and real relationship between myself and Jesus Christ as my saviour, and I would never go back, praise him!
But for Jason, that baptism began a really difficult, confusing and consuming inner battle within him, a battle between the old and the new. It has been a brutal battle, we have faltered much, but I want to see my Lord reign unchallenged in my husbands life so much, and so does Jason! So, with that end in mind, we are reading your site. I trust that you will hear and see in spirit what is happening with Jason, and myself, and see that we genuinely want to cut this spirit off. It's been a long road even to here.
I hope the above has given you enough of a feel for who I am, and where I am coming from, to offer any advice you may have about what you think Jason or myself would be best to do in this. He fully believes he needs to separate from the RC formally, is there a wise way to do this in your opinion? Jason believes Jesus has shown him that he made a covenant with a man made church in his profession of faith, and that Jesus wants him to break this. Do you have any insight you could offers us about how this could be done? I feel deeply that Jason is now ready to do whatever he needs to, to do what is required to go all out for Jesus, but he's not sure how to do it or what exactly he should do. I wondered if you could offer any advice? But only if the Lords spirit is stirred to do so, of course . Outside of His stirring it would fail anyway!
Irregardless of any insight you may or not have about all this, I truly do want to thank you Victor and Paul for the work you've done and the great wealth of information I have gleaned in reading through it. Thank you for being brave, honest, and true to yourselves and the Lords call as you discern it. I wish you well in your purpose. Calvinism is so deeply and insidiously entrenched, that I believe it will take such hard, unwavering views as yours to challenge it in any meaningful way. God Bless all those who hear and do His will.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. May you continue to stand strong in these last days, along with all members of the Lords true church.
Much love,
Emma .