You're welcome, Mat.
Did you know there's such a thing as denominating oneself a "non-denominationalist"? That's why it's said, "You can come out of Babylon, but Babylon needs to come out of you."
Not saying that's the case here, but The True Marks of a Cult
will help you see if it is.
You say that "Christ came to set us free." Are you one of those who think the Lord came to set us free from the Ten Commandments - the Sabbath being an unbearable burden rather than a gift?